tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post4304981619981355976..comments2023-04-02T19:29:09.869-05:00Comments on "A" for Effort ("B" for Blog): H for Helpless (A for Angry)Ellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06029614712855760844noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-55411861161386735242011-06-10T20:05:09.327-05:002011-06-10T20:05:09.327-05:00Thanks, Shana. So far, so good. She has not let hi...Thanks, Shana. So far, so good. She has not let him back home, and this is the longest they've been separated and the most I've ever seen her stick to her guns. So, that's a good thing. <br /><br />I completely agree with your statement on him. Unfortunately, it seems as though people like him somehow always manage to escape karma. Here's to hoping that won't be the case! ;-)Ellehttp://aforeffortbfor.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-33928583220409936982011-06-07T12:14:55.408-05:002011-06-07T12:14:55.408-05:00I'm really sorry to hear about this. I unders...I'm really sorry to hear about this. I understand your frustration that she's not learning from your younger sister's experience. I really hope she's done for good and that she sticks to her guns this time. <br /><br />And I don't like to wish ill on people...even assholes...because karma can be a real bitch. However, if something heavy should fall from a great distance and land on that guy...well, that wouldn't be so terrible.<br /><br />Good luck.Shanahttp://www.fumblingtowardsnormalcy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-91302036571219935602011-05-31T19:45:03.928-05:002011-05-31T19:45:03.928-05:00Agreed! It HAS to be the last time!! I also agree ...Agreed! It HAS to be the last time!! I also agree that she sounds stronger than ever. When I saw/talked to her this weekend she seemed stronger than she ever has been about being done with him and more resolute in her decision.<br /><br />Thanks, hon! You're awesome!! I love you lots!Ellehttp://aforeffortbfor.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-17307554852688403852011-05-31T18:36:37.606-05:002011-05-31T18:36:37.606-05:00I was going to delete this comment, because you ar...I was going to delete this comment, because you are a disgusting spammy spammer. But, I thought I'd leave it so people would know which blogs NOT to visit. WOW. Seriously. Maybe try reading the post next time. Unreal.Ellehttp://aforeffortbfor.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-89215847064534142982011-05-31T18:35:50.823-05:002011-05-31T18:35:50.823-05:00Thanks for the support, lady! I've always thou...Thanks for the support, lady! I've always thought my sister must have her own line that needed to be crossed before she'd leave. I'm hoping this was that line.Ellehttp://aforeffortbfor.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-69998662417607807812011-05-31T18:34:48.705-05:002011-05-31T18:34:48.705-05:00Thanks, Kathie! I'm really hoping for her and ...Thanks, Kathie! I'm really hoping for her and the kids' safety that this is the end of her relationship with the "fiance." It remains to be seen. She DOES seem stronger and more persistent this time around, which is good.Ellehttp://aforeffortbfor.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-27317113352906907552011-05-30T20:27:16.824-05:002011-05-30T20:27:16.824-05:00When she told me about this the other night, I was...When she told me about this the other night, I was sick to my stomach. This better be the last time, that's for damn sure. The good news is this time when I talked to her, she sounded strong. Stronger than I've ever heard her. <br /><br />You don't sound selfish at all, every single one of your feelings are justified. I'm here for ya if you need to vent, scream, yell or anything else. Love ya!<br /><br />PS, it's really too bad about the spam comment above mine, what a tool.Mom_Fantasticnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-56870336070708327532011-05-30T08:08:51.212-05:002011-05-30T08:08:51.212-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Nilofernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-53914158261618635012011-05-30T07:25:53.466-05:002011-05-30T07:25:53.466-05:00That is so terrible. I can't imagine what you...That is so terrible. I can't imagine what you are going through dealing with this type of situation again. But your sister is lucky to have you in her life even though she doesn't appreciate it enough. Hopefully she will listen to you and really leave him.JMJEnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7402354063686528268.post-63960078656779110012011-05-28T07:33:47.552-05:002011-05-28T07:33:47.552-05:00I'm so sorry this is happening. Your frustrat...I'm so sorry this is happening. Your frustration is certainly understandable and justified.<br /><br />I think you should just tell her everything you put in this post; however, I have zero experience in this kind of situation, so it may be the wrong thing to do. I think honesty and sharing feelings is the usually the best way to go though. <br /><br />I hope she is done with that loser for good!Kathiehttp://www.justahappyhousewife.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com